Winning Back Her Love - 3 Things That Usually Don't Work

There are plenty of things that guys will do to try and win back the love of a woman whom they used to be in a relationship with or a woman they are dating but they can tell is drifting away, and a lot of them just don't work all that well. Some are the kind of thing that will sound good and sound like an effective way to make her fall in love with you again, but the reality will fall short of your expectations when you realize that no matter what, it's not going to make her change her mind.

Being able to save yourself from the mistake of trying things that just don't work that often will save you a lot of potential time and heartache, so you may want to pay close attention.

Here are 3 things that usually don't work if you want to win back the love of a woman:

1. Writing her sappy love poems that only sound good to you.

Here is the reality about writing out those love poems that you would think would work: It probably only sounds good to you. It might be cold to say that, but most of the time it ends up being the way that it is. While you might think that the words are going to touch her, chances are the paper is just going to get crinkled up and then tossed in a garbage can somewhere.

2. Texting her love messages throughout the day.

Texting a woman you are on good terms with every once in a while can be a good thing, when it is a woman that you are on the outs with, it is not going to have the same result. You might hear someone suggest this as the way to go, but most of the time it just ends up being the shortened version of the love letter and will just get ignored or deleted.

3. Trying to persuade her that she should love you.

It's funny. You can stand in the mirror and concoct a long speech that sounds like it should be in one of those romantic comedies women love so much, but when it actually comes out, it just sounds like a guy begging for a chance and that's not sexy nor is it convincing. You can try all you want to persuade her that she should love you, but if she doesn't FEEL IT, it's just not going to happen.